Rant and Rave

[GoTeamGT]

Thanks Spud
Adoption high five Cheese! lol.
Nah, she has enough going on and I think I can cope until she goes on maternity leave or I get out of Dublin. It'll be okay, and I don't want to bother her with my issues.

[mansonmaniac]

Me and my boyfriend of 1 year and 4 months have broken up

He has been cheating on me and I just found out there.

The stupid B*****d should learn how to use bebo

I can't believe he would do that to me for some s**t who lives in England

I even had his valentines presents in

[glam]

Sorry to hear that Manson

[Spud's back!!!]

he's not worth it manson

thinking of u xx

Jillian xx

[lew]

Nope, tell him to stick his head in the loo and flush the chain, hopefully something nasty will happen

[inky]

Sorry to hear the bad news manson. You're better off rid of him. Can you get a refund on the Valentines pressie? If you can, treat yourself with the money you've saved ;D

[Sloopy]

Oh no - sorry to hear that, Manson.

Kick him to the kerb!!

[mansonmaniac]

He's been well and truely kicked.

He thinks I don't know about him cheating, all hell's gonna break loose tomorrow <insert evil smiley here>

[Spud's back!!!]

you know what manson

don't go in all guns' blazing - take it calmly - he won't know how to react and will be totally confused, then you can be in control of the situation and your feelings

Don't let him pull you down

Jillian xx

[mansonmaniac]

I will try to stay calm, I am normally a calm happy person

[Spud's back!!!]

good don't show him any emotion and he won't know what hit him
;D

Jillian xx

[wolfenkin]

Poor Manson. *hug* Don't sweat the B*****d. S**ts like that always come a cropper in the end.

[fussycat]

Manson honey you deserve better, can do better and you are most certainly better than that piece of s*#t!

[xjsarah]

lew said:

Nope, tell him to stick his head in the loo and flush the chain, hopefully something nasty will happen

Before or after it's been used?!! ;D

Manson, you're better off without him. I'm sure there's someone else out there who'll treat you properly.

[Deleted]

as I mentioned in the other thread, a guy who cheats isn't worth it. I hope it goes ok, I agree stay calm and controlled. It 'll shock him!

[PP]

Grrrr

Just arrived home after a terrible day at work to find a 10 year old scrote trying to put his foot through my front door! He was being egged on by his little mates. Luckily he ran off when he saw me round the corner and before he could do any real damage. Looks like he had had a go at the neighbours door too. And!, And! they have both only just been painted! B******ds. No respect at all (I feel really old typing that)

Sorry, rant over


Manson, I hope that your day was better than yesterday

[mansonmaniac]

Porche thats not very nice what they were doing

It's shocking how young they are and how there behaving.

I completely ignored it but sadly the people that keep shouting abuse at me started again.

[inky]

I'd set the dogs on the little bl**ders. My lot would slobber and slime 'em to death ;D

[PP]

He was just trying to look hard in front of his friends. I would’ve loved to have caught him and given him a clip round the ear. Alas, I fear that’s frowned upon these days. Slimed to death sounds like a plan ;D

Ignore ‘em Manson. Honestly, they’re not worth it

[mansonmaniac]

hehe I would have still clipped em' But it's not nice though

[mansonmaniac]

I am really confuzled

I was really angry abouting the the cheating thing with my old boyfriend and I was positive I was okay just angry.

Now i'm not too sure, I feel really, really sad all the time and helpless, not my usual cheery self and all my mates have noticed it.

Nearly all of my most trusting friends are guys, I think there all worried about me because lately they have been around me more often and are more friendly (giving me hugs and saying nice things)

I'm just wondering have I really changed that much over the space of a few days

[lymaze]

It's strange how you can react to things Manson. You think in a situation that you feel anger or relief that something has come to an end but there's always these feelings and emotions beneath the surface which surprise you. You have good friends which is a very positive thing, and they obviously care about you. They probably also expect you to feel sad, so they're being extra protective at the moment. You'll get through it and in a short time from now it'll all be fine again.

[mansonmaniac]

Thanks Ly for helping me understand

[Deleted]

I agree with Ly, it's ok to feel as you do. Your friends are being protective, as they can see that the bell end was horrid.

I hope you feel a bit better soon.

[xjsarah]

mansonmaniac said:

I am really confuzled

I was really angry abouting the the cheating thing with my old boyfriend and I was positive I was okay just angry.

Now i'm not too sure, I feel really, really sad all the time and helpless, not my usual cheery self and all my mates have noticed it.

Nearly all of my most trusting friends are guys, I think there all worried about me because lately they have been around me more often and are more friendly (giving me hugs and saying nice things)

I'm just wondering have I really changed that much over the space of a few days

*dons psychologist's hat*

Manson, it's unlikely you'll have changed that much. It sounds like you are going through a form of grief. You are simply grieving over what you've lost.

Eventually, once you've worked through that, you should feel better, and ready to move on.

*removes psychologist's hat*

[Mayfayre]

Manson, Ly & Sarah are right. The few times I've ended a relationship, for whatever reasons, I've felt sad, empty & a bit lost for a while too. It does pass, especially if you have good supportive friends, and it sounds like you do have.

You're remembering all the good times you had together, and that's a good thing. It's better to remember someone fondly in the long term than only remembering why you split up & just feeling bitter about them.

[banned]

I hate my work!!! They inform me I have to get stuff signed off, no problem with that!! But now they tell me I cant work again til its done, only I need to be at work to get it done!!! And they say theres no irony in America!! Sorry, just felt the need to get that out in the open!! Normal service will be resumed shortly ;D

[Spud's back!!!]

therapy for you banned - get to thong and button threads STAT


Jillian xx

[xjsarah]

Banned, that's just completely mental! What are they thinking?! Can't they just send you the stuff that needs signing off?

[banned]

Just heard back from the boss, I can do half at home, and be allowed back to do the rest!!! Which is something I guess, but hells bells, could they not have had me do this when I was at work?? The management didnt even tell me I was not able to work, I only found out when I went to book shifts!! And as I work Temp, if I dont work, I dont get paid I dont think I have ever typed so much at once